I held Elsie every night in the hospital, where we shared her single bed. I stared at her. I prayed for her. I listened to her breathing and smelt the sweat on her skin. My husband slept beside us on the fold out bed and he held my hand through the side rails in the early hours of the morning. I had never loved my little family so much before.
Doctors were worried about Elsie and action was being taken, as I recall. They were almost certain tests would show their diagnosis was accurate and so they put her port line in to begin chemotherapy immediately.
I was desperate for a cure. I wanted ‘things’ to happen yesterday. I needed good news. I demanded a plan. I sought to wrestle control back from the cancer that had so quickly rendered me useless. Someone posted on Facebook ‘relax, nothing is under control’ and I realised that truer words had never been written.
My phone was my enemy in that week. I couldn’t turn it on. I couldn’t talk. News of our trauma had spread across the country and everyone wanted to offer their support. It wasn’t that I was ungrateful, I simply couldn’t pick up the phone to listen to the messages. It hurt to hear the sadness in people’s voices. It made everything too real. It meant the world was going on out there, without us, without Elsie who so loved life and hated missing out on anything.